I have been aware of spirit since a young age. Following the passing of my Grandfather in 1999 I found I could no longer ignore what I was sensing and began to seek answers. Following a dynamic shift in my material and emotional life, I began to realise that I needed to seek knowledge from people who could point me in the right direction, and who had experience of all the things occurring to me. I undertook my first awareness group in 2003 leading to me being invited to join a development circle within a local church.
In 2006 I attended my first of many courses at The Arthur Findlay College for the Advancement of Psychic Science. There I discovered tutors and friends who could explain my gifts, and how best to develop and use them for the benefit of others, both here and in the spirit world. Since then, I actively spend everyday trying to unfold both as a medium and as a spirit undergoing a human experience.
A private sitting or reading is a form of spirit communication, similar to those you may see at a Spiritualist church, a clairvoyant evening or a demonstration of mediumship. The difference is that the communication is in private and on a one-to-one basis. The benefits of this are that it allows more time, and the medium is able to go into greater depth giving more personal information from the spirit world.
Most people are happy with their sittings but it should be noted that by their very nature attempts to communicate with those in spirit are experimental and results can never be guaranteed. If this is the case and you are unhappy with your reading then you can request a refund.
My role is to provide the link between you and the spirit world, for the experience to be both evidential and enjoyable and to help you come to realise that our friends and family live on, and are safe and well in the spirit world.
Some Questions:
Is it scary?
Due to misconceptions and misunderstanding perpetuated by the media, and those with no real understanding of mediumship, some may find seeking a medium worrying. It is my job as the medium to reassure you that there is nothing to worry about, and that spirit communication is a natural process. The people in the spirit world, who seek to communicate with you, are on the whole, people who knew you and cared for you when they were on the earth. They have no reason or intention to upset or worry you, they wish to prove that they live on as does their love.
Should I think about the person/people I want a message from?
You can if you wish, as sometimes this can be helpful, but remember there is no guarantee that a message from a particular person will come through. Remember the medium conveys the information they receive and relies upon the spirit people to communicate. Generally, if your loved one is willing and able to communicate with you they will. It has been found that to limit your expectations of the reading causes tension between the sitter and the medium. This can lead to a constrictive atmosphere unhelpful to communication, and so an open mind is best to enable the spirit world to communicate freely with you.
Is there anything I can do to assist with my reading?
Keep an open mind. Try not to limit your thoughts to one or two people. Your message could come from anyone who has known you or people who passed over prior to your birth. If you cannot understand a part of your message say so, the medium will try to clarify it for you with the help of the spirit world. Be honest, don’t say ‘No’ to be awkward or “Yes’ to be helpful. As much as possible have hopeful, positive and friendly thoughts towards the experience and the medium. Remember you are seeking their help to hear from your loved ones, and as such they are trying to serve both you and your loved ones in the spirit world.Above all else just enjoy the experience for what it is and know that we are all eternal spirits who will survive the change called ‘death’.
'I am not a body, I am free. For I am still as God created me'
A Course in Miracles
